Go, Figure (Well, at Least Part of My Figure)

Last week I did a really big thing.  In retrospect, it was much bigger than I anticipated.  People I spoke with who did the same thing stated, “it would be life changing”, “the results would be amazing”.  Naively, I thought since this was a standard procedure it would be eazy peazy. I’m here to tell […]

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Shine On…..or Shine Somewhere Else.

John and I bought a house last month.  This was a big step, a tremendous amount of work and a very exciting time for us and our relationship. The home that we have rented for the last 4+ years was charming, with lots of character.  One of the things I loved most about the house […]

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Mama’s Boots

Mama always said that a lady should not wear white shoes before Easter Sunday; but, I don’t recall exactly when she said you should put them away for the season.  Near as I can recall, it would be the first hint of Fall or perhaps October 1st.  I would have said September 1st with the […]

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my dear sweet Georgina – you are so not alone,  you did good and your Charlie smiles down at you from a place we can’t even begin to know.  I hope my own son, Grant, welcomed him to the place of the children who go before their parents.  Thank you for sharing your story. Still Life

Georgina Blanchard recalls the stillbirth of her son, Charlie Showman: “It had never occurred to me that my baby would be anything but healthy.” https://discover.wordpress.com/2016/09/07/still-life/

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Loved you last, <3Mija

In the midst of the 4th anniversary of my mama’s passing, I believed I was too tired to blog tonight.  Then I realized – isn’t this the best time to write?  Two cups of emotion, one cup of sadness, ½ cup of fading adrenaline and 3 cups of chardonnay.  What’s not to write about? Mama […]

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To Pee or Not to Pee….

I have had 4 children within a nine-year span.  I have done my Kegels.  I have tried to be bladder compliant.  Nonetheless, truth be told, I wet my pants running, walking, laughing, drinking.  I come through the front door of the house after a 15, 30, 45, 60-minute drive stating “I have to pee”. Case […]

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Legal Tender

When I was a little girl, I got free breakfast at school.  For as long as I can remember, I packed my own lunch — anything from peanut butter and jelly with lays chips sandwiched in between, a cold hotdog sandwich on sliced bread with mayo and ketchup or a bologna sandwich on sliced bread […]

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